Find what’s underneath your patterns.

Intimacy Map is a set of short, research-informed quizzes about how you bond, what your desire is oriented toward, and what your fantasies are actually doing for you. Each one drops you somewhere specific on a two-axis map, not a single label pulled from a fixed list.

We built these quizzes off established psychological frameworks — attachment theory’s anxiety/avoidance model, and function-based (not content-based) models of desire and fantasy — rather than inventing a new typology for its own sake. You can read the reasoning behind each one in our companion articles.

Results are for reflection, not diagnosis. Nothing on this Site is a substitute for advice from a licensed therapist or counselor — see our Terms of Use for more on that.

The Site is free to use. We support it through advertising and an optional paid “Blueprint” report that combines your results from all three quizzes into one composite read.

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